Thursday, 3 September 2009

things i used to do.

It's horrible when you lose friends. Especially close ones. But the worst is when you constantly bicker and fight back at each other. And it just never ends. And it seems that as much as you try and make things work again. It just fails and your back to square 1.

However it just makes me have such a gut feeling when there's a sense of replacement. As if you meant nothing. It drives me insane. All I can think of is getting a job, getting coursework done and moving on and finding people who matter. So far I've done half my coursework. And I have been with school friends who have made me feel so good these past few days. But it's different when you're with your close friends. I only really care about Cherise the most. I just really hope I haven't lost her. I can deal with other losses. I don't blame the new guy at all! I just find it always makes me feel like I don't matter. Everytime something pops up on facebook. Things I used to do. 

It's weird how things change but in a way I'm happy for the change. I can focus on a lot more things than making my friendships work with people who aren't achieving. And in a way I'm focusing more on myself so that I can get to the places I want instead of rooting for other peoples goals. I'm gonna make the best of myself. And true friends will be there throughout the journey without being negative. I find that jealousy and guilt can be easily related in times like these.